Keperluan dalam perhubungan

Sejak aku bercinta dengan second boypren aku ni, aku selalu je bising2 kat dia sebab ada banyak ketidakpuasan hati aku terhadap dia.
Kekadang aku pikir, dia tak cukup prihatin ke atau aku yang terlebih demand?
Mungkin dua2 pun betul...

Kat sini aku copy balik 3 Great Qualities of an Ideal Boyfriend dari link yang aku ambik kat sini ;

1. Learn to compromise - An ideal boyfriend must be willing enough to compromise. This is the most important part in every relationship. Learn how to put away your pride in any circumstances. Do not avoid and run away from arguments. Learn to fix every conflict by not fighting with her and making things lighter. Be more than willing to compromise. Keep your mind open and be positive that every argument is just an obstacle that needs to be faced positively. These trials will make your relationship grow stronger as ever. Do not sleep with unfinished fights and arguments. Go to bed mutually at peace.
2. Communicate and listen - It is always believed that an ideal boyfriend would love to have good communication and listens keenly. Sometimes, your girl might rant and nag on some issues in your relationship. Sometimes, all she wants is to overly talk on some things that have made her day very disappointing. She may have some stressful and bad day. All you have to do is sit there and listen. When she needs you to talk, say something that would ease her anxiety and sadness. Learn to say how and what you also feel, and at the same time, take most of the time listening to her.
3. Have a life and space - Everyone needs space. Do not spend every waking hour with her. You need to talk with her and make a mutual understanding that both of you should have a life outside your relationship. Give her some space and she will also give you your space. This is one way to make her cherish every moment you spend together. This will actually make her look forward on spending another day with you. This will actually make her miss you more and more. There is always a great tendency that you begin to take each other for granted when you spend most of your time together.

Tujuan aku highlight perkara no.2 tu ialah memang kalau nak mengekalkan apa2 perhubungan sekalipun, communication tu penting. Memang orang pompuan ni hakikatnya banyak cakap, kekadang apa yang dia duk cakap pun dia tak tau, sebab dah terlalu banyak bercakap. Dan lelaki biasanyanya cakap benda2 penting je (tapi dalam kes boypren aku, dia yang banyak cakap dari aku).

Yelah, orang pompuan ni biasanya cakap benda yang remeh temeh, yang tak penting bagi orang laki, tapi sebenarnya orang pompuan ni nak luahkan perasaan dia je.
Contoh macam aku, kekadang tu aku mengaku yang aku cuma nak berleter je tentang perkara yang takde sangkut paut dengan hubungan aku dengan boypren aku, tapi bila boypren aku macam nak tak nak je dengar, tu yang potong stim aku nak bercerita...

Tapi lepas gaduh dan gaduh tentang benda yang sama tempohari, aku harap boypren aku faham kenapa aku membebel pasal ni kat dia. Aku ni tak banyak cakap, tapi kalau aku tetiba banyak cakap, ada laa benda yang tak kena tu...