Why Perfume?

Hari Sabtu, Man ajak bukak puasa kat KLCC.
Dah 3 minggu tak jumpa kan, since kejadian hari tu.
Man kata dia ada suprise untuk aku.

Unfortunately, Man dapat tempias moody aku.
Ye, aku moody tak tentu pasal hari tu. Serabut.
Atau personal issue yang tak settle?
So macam biasa, Man jadi mangsa kemarahan aku.

Man belanja makan kat Apartment.
Bufffet katanya. Adoyaii...buffet lagi!
So bila aku tak berjaya turun berat badan bulan puasa ni ,siapa aku nak salahkan??

Tiba2 dia bagi aku ni;

OMG. Man tak pernah bagi aku hadiah. Selama ni.
Nak dekat setahun dah bercinta dengan dia, dia tak pernah bagi aku hadiah.
Even when my birthday, there's no present for me at all!
Biasanya aku yang mintak dia belikan itu, ini. Bukan dia yang nak bagi.
Haruslah pelik kan.

So, aku tanya dia, kenapa tiba2 je bagi hadiah?
Dia kata saje je, sebab teringat kat aku.
Naa....everything happened has its own reason, okay.
Janganlah kata sebab rasa bersalah pasal dia lupa aku ajak dia tengok game Chelsea hari tu kan.
Which is, last 3 weeks.

Hadiah pertama dari Man, perfume.
Pilihan yang pelik, iaitu Calvin Klein.

Bukanlah aku bersikap sarkastik pada Man kan.
Orang dah ambik, banyak cakap pulak.
Tak bagi kang, merajuk.
Tapi bila Man buat benda2 pelik ni, of course aku curious kan.
Sebab nya Man tak pernah buat camni.
Dan bila dah nak dekat setahun, baru dia bagi aku something.
Tak ke pelik tu untuk pasangan yang bercinta?
Biasa kan masa mula2 bagi hadiah. Ni dah nak dekat setahun baru nak bagi.
Ye, aku memang skeptikal.
Tapi aku suka hadiah tu. Hehehehe....

"No man buys flowers for a woman because he wants to. He buys the flowers because it keeps you smiling and happy. And it is easier to get you naked if you are happy.
No man buys jewelry or other trinkets and baubles for a woman because he wants to. He buys them because he knows it will keep you smiling and happy. And it is easier to get you naked if you are happy.
No man buys an expensive meal at a restaurant for a woman because he wants to. But he will take you out, and spend tons of money on a meal because he knows it will keep you smiling and happy. And it is easier to get you naked if you are happy."- diambil dari sini

Ok, abaikan pasal get you naked tu. Tak semestinya.

"If a guy’s been giving you gifts or showering you with special gestures, that’s probably because he wants you to know that he thinks about you all the time, even when he shops!" - read here

"Presents do not have to be expensive to be heartfelt. A present can be as simple as an email, a homemade card, or a wildflower picked from the roadside. The essence of this sign is that whenever he does give you a present, whether it is for a special event such as a birthday, or if it is just an off the cuff small gift, it is a gift that means something to you personally. He shows he cares about you by the depth of thought that goes into what you will like and he delights in giving you gifts that you just love." - signs he really loves you

Tapi kenapa bagi perfume?

"I like certain smells, so I always buy perfume for serious girlfriends.” read here

“Sweet and tasty scents are familiar. Smelling them reminds guys of simple childhood days, so they feel secure enough to let their attraction and affection show.”

Read more: Perfume - Scents That Seduce Men - Cosmopolitan

"because when you dont know what to buy for a girl, the easy gifts to give is a perfume set or a bath set (with the showergels and lotions)

its just a safe gift to give so he dosent get you something your not interested in" - read here

What Perfumes Mean

There is joke about giving perfumes as gifts, they say that if you give a perfume to somebody you're saying;

"You smell so bad I can't stand it! Here, use a perfume, pleeeease!"

But of course that's not true...or is it in your case?

It is true however, that we want that person to always smell good and be at his best. A sweet smell gives out a positive aura and a good impression. Remember, first impressions last and you don't want to be known as somebody who smells like a dresser. Ever heard, "He's not really good at selling...but he smells good"

If you have curiosity just like me, read here.

 

Woman and her right

 

RULE NO.1 = Woman is always right.
RULE NO.2 = If you think your woman is not right, see rule no.1.

Ayat Penghibur di Hari Tua

Macamana ek kalau kita dah tua nanti?
Aku tak pasti bila aku dah tua nanti, aku masih dengan Man atau keseorangan.
Yang pasti, aku tak nak jadi nyanyuk bila dah tua.
Aku tak nak susahkan anak - anak aku, cucu - cucu aku atau orang lain.
Aku masih nak drive kereta aku sendiri, nak pergi rumah kawan - kawan, nak pegi sana, nak pegi sini.
Ye, aku nenek yang kuat berjalan. Huhuhu...
Harap - harap lutut kaki aku okay lagi bila dah tua ;D

 

Macamana rupa aku dengan Man bila dah tua nanti?

dan macamana rupa member - member aku bila kami dah tua nanti? hehehehe

Harap - harap lutut aku okay lagi bila aku dah tua ;D

dan aku harap aku dengan Man akan kekal sampai mati... :)

Love Quote

 

“Man who open car door for girl reveal one thing, either car is new, or girlfriend is new”

Love is Blind, and I am willingly Blinded by Love

Motif aku letak gambar filem Cinderella ni?? Nak suruh encik JK angkat aku macam ni nanti. Hehehe..

So minggu ni dah janji nak jumpa kan.

Unfortunately, encik JK demam. Macam biasa.

Dia tu, haishh...

Kalau aku takde depan mata dia, letak vitamin dalam mulut dia, takdenye dia nak makan.

Aku ni gigih laa beli vitamin C, suruh dia makan, dah kata antibodi lemah kan.

Tak jugak habis vitamin tu, aku rasa ada dah 6 bulan aku beli tu, tak habih - habih lagi.

Pastu bila demam, mula laa mengadu, demam la, pening kepala la.

Ni yang aku tak gemor ni.

Tapi tak kira, aku nak jumpa jugak.

Siang ke malam ke, nak jugak jumpa.

Tak tertahan menanggung rindu di dada. Ekekeke.

Aku sebelum ni tak pernah laa buat kerja - kerja macam ni.

I mean, sanggup drive jauh just untuk tengok muka orang tersayang kan.

Yelah, bagi aku antara rumah dia dengan rumah aku tu, kira jauh la.

Tapi cinta punya pasai, yang jauh pun tak terasa jauhnye...ekekeke.

Memang laa pelik, kita travel jauh, semata - mata nak tengok muka dia.

Nak dengar dia bercakap, nak dengar suara dia - live.

Nak tengok dia makan. Cara dia makan bukan comel pun, comot ada le.

Tapi yang tu jugak lah suka tengok. Kalau boleh, nak tengok hari - hari kan.

Sebab tu, bila ada yang kata love is blind, aku memang setuju sangat dengan ayat tu.

Memang betul pun, everything become blind when you is in love.

Aku paling suka kalau malam Ahad dapat spent masa dengan dia.

Jadi perantau ni, memang weekend nak spent masa dengan orang2 tersayang saja...

Kekadang, kecik jugak ati aku bila dia malam Ahad je, tak nak keluar.

Kita yang rindu kat sini, tak faham - faham ke?

Kalau aku duduk kat rumah je malam Ahad, jangan ingat aku ok.

Aku tak ok, aku tak suka. Sebab malam minggu, kau duduk kat rumah, apa barang beb?

Zaman takde pakwe dulu, ok lah lagi. Ni, dah ada pakwe, takkan nak lepak umah hujung minggu kot?

Aku tau encik JK faham. Tapi orang laki ni kalau kita tak cakap benda tu berulang - ulang, dia ingat kita dah ok. Padahalllllll..........

Bila dah tengok muka dia, tengok dia makan, ngendeng - ngendeng dengan dia, baru puas hati.

So, balik rumah, simpan rindu untuk next time dating pulak.

Esok paginya, encik JK telefon aku.

Aku tanya, kenapa? Dia tanya aku pulak, rindu ke?

Eh, eh, dia yang rindu kat aku, motif tanya aku yang rindu dia lak.

Ala orang laki memang camtu kan, dia yang rindu, ego tak nak bagitau.

Pastu cakap kita rindu dia lak. Poyo je.

Ha, tau pun rindu. Abih ingat kita travel jauh ni bukan sebab rindu kat awak ke?

Yup, love is blind. And I am now blindly by love.

Bunga = Perempuan, Perempuan = Bunga

Wahai kaum lelaki....
Kalau bini atau aweks anda merajuk,
Bagi je bunga.....

Gerenti hilang le merajuk....
Pompuan mana yang tak suka bunga???

Aku paling suka bila dapat bunga...
Lagi suka bila orang yang dicintai bagi kan...

Maksud warna bunga;

• Yellow: A yellow flower is a symbol of happiness, friendship, enthusiasm, luxury, success, pride and treachery. It also represents the jealousy.
• Red: A red flower is a favorite of youth as it represents an essence of emotions such as love and passion. It is also a symbol of courage, desire, admiration, constancy and respect. A red flower is a token of youth and enthusiasm.
• Orange: You can represent your strong love, or a satisfaction of attaining the success through an orange flower. It is also a token of desire and enthusiasm. This vibrant color conveys satisfaction, confidence and passion for life.
• Green: This refreshing color represents resilience, youth, health and good fortune. The green flowers send a message of pleasure, renewal and optimism.
• White: White color itself is a symbol of peace and purity. If you ask what is the meaning of white color, you will get the answer that it is a token of purity, humility, innocence and silence. It represents the heavenly, pious and sincere feelings. The white blossoms convey an elegance and modesty.
• Pink: The elegant pink flowers attract the lovers. Pink is a color of love. And hence, offering a pink flower expresses your love and passion for the other person. A light pink flower is a symbol of delicacy, gentleness, grace, admiration and confidence. A dark pink flower represents the emotions such as gratitude and appreciation.
• Lavender: A lavender flower represents beauty, solitude and admiration. The lavender flowers are a token of grace, refinement and elegance. The lavender blossoms convey a message of a feminine beauty.
• Peach pink: If you wish to express your sympathy, gratitude friendship or gentleness, then you can offer a peach pink flower.
• Purple: This color is associated with the royalty and ceremony. The purple flower is a token of pride, dignity and success. The purple blooms represent admiration and accomplishment.
• Blue: The blue flowers can reduce stress and worries. They represent serenity, openness and peace. A blue flower offers a cooling effect. It is a perfect gift that promotes the muse of an artist, poet or musician. The blue flowers can be a unique gift to boost the inspiration.

Wahai kaum lelaki,
Bagilah bunga kepada wanita anda,
Bukan saja pada harijadinya, hari ibu, atau wedding anniversary...
Tetapi juga di saat apabila anda membuat dia terluka, atau terasa...
Pasti hatinya akan cair...
Percayalahhhhhh.....hehehehe...

Orang pompuan memang suka nangis....

Bila tengok William-Kate kawin, hati mana yang tak sebak...
Sebagai pompuan sejati, sudah tentu aku sebak...
Dan itu adalah normal ok.

Kat fb, aku ada posting video bila Kate-William tengah kissing atas balcony.
Sangat suka. Yelah, orang pompuan kan, memang suka benda2 touching ni.
Pastu dalam otak aku mula la terbayang adegan yang sama dengan Encik JK.
Hahahaha..perasannnnnnnnnnnn...

Orang lelaki ni, bukannya paham kita ni sebak sebab apa kan...

Dan perkahwinan adalah sesuatu yang indah buat kaum wanita...
Apatah lagi dapat membina mahligai dengan lelaki yang dicintai...

Pastinya, Kate adalah perempuan yang paling bertuah.
Sebab yelah, dapat kawin ngan anak raja ko..mau tak bertuah??
Tapi, kalau in the end diorang bercerai, tak bertuah la jugak. LOL!

Apapun, moga mereka kekal bahagia...sorry la, mood aku malam ni gatai sikit..muahahahahahahaha

Keperluan dalam perhubungan

Sejak aku bercinta dengan second boypren aku ni, aku selalu je bising2 kat dia sebab ada banyak ketidakpuasan hati aku terhadap dia.
Kekadang aku pikir, dia tak cukup prihatin ke atau aku yang terlebih demand?
Mungkin dua2 pun betul...

Kat sini aku copy balik 3 Great Qualities of an Ideal Boyfriend dari link yang aku ambik kat sini ;

1. Learn to compromise - An ideal boyfriend must be willing enough to compromise. This is the most important part in every relationship. Learn how to put away your pride in any circumstances. Do not avoid and run away from arguments. Learn to fix every conflict by not fighting with her and making things lighter. Be more than willing to compromise. Keep your mind open and be positive that every argument is just an obstacle that needs to be faced positively. These trials will make your relationship grow stronger as ever. Do not sleep with unfinished fights and arguments. Go to bed mutually at peace.
2. Communicate and listen - It is always believed that an ideal boyfriend would love to have good communication and listens keenly. Sometimes, your girl might rant and nag on some issues in your relationship. Sometimes, all she wants is to overly talk on some things that have made her day very disappointing. She may have some stressful and bad day. All you have to do is sit there and listen. When she needs you to talk, say something that would ease her anxiety and sadness. Learn to say how and what you also feel, and at the same time, take most of the time listening to her.
3. Have a life and space - Everyone needs space. Do not spend every waking hour with her. You need to talk with her and make a mutual understanding that both of you should have a life outside your relationship. Give her some space and she will also give you your space. This is one way to make her cherish every moment you spend together. This will actually make her look forward on spending another day with you. This will actually make her miss you more and more. There is always a great tendency that you begin to take each other for granted when you spend most of your time together.

Tujuan aku highlight perkara no.2 tu ialah memang kalau nak mengekalkan apa2 perhubungan sekalipun, communication tu penting. Memang orang pompuan ni hakikatnya banyak cakap, kekadang apa yang dia duk cakap pun dia tak tau, sebab dah terlalu banyak bercakap. Dan lelaki biasanyanya cakap benda2 penting je (tapi dalam kes boypren aku, dia yang banyak cakap dari aku).

Yelah, orang pompuan ni biasanya cakap benda yang remeh temeh, yang tak penting bagi orang laki, tapi sebenarnya orang pompuan ni nak luahkan perasaan dia je.
Contoh macam aku, kekadang tu aku mengaku yang aku cuma nak berleter je tentang perkara yang takde sangkut paut dengan hubungan aku dengan boypren aku, tapi bila boypren aku macam nak tak nak je dengar, tu yang potong stim aku nak bercerita...

Tapi lepas gaduh dan gaduh tentang benda yang sama tempohari, aku harap boypren aku faham kenapa aku membebel pasal ni kat dia. Aku ni tak banyak cakap, tapi kalau aku tetiba banyak cakap, ada laa benda yang tak kena tu...